It is no big secret, college girls don’t have it as easy as it may seem when you imagine college life. It is a big deal when you go to college, because you want to act on emotion and impulse rather than thinking things through or having your parents there to help guide you along. College girls especially have to worry more than ever about being safe and aware of what is going on around them. Those that just entered college at the freshman level are going to have guys hitting on them the most because these are usually the girls that party more than anyone else. It is great to have friends that can help you out, good friends that will keep you from regret.
Here is a list of tips that can help you have a better chance at a successful and enjoyable college experience:
-Don’t overspend on clothing. I know clothes can be extremely easy to spend money on, but you don’t need to put yourself under more financial strain than you have to be. That way you can lower your stress level as much as possible.
-It is a great experience when you have a boyfriend in college that you can rely on and that you have a solid relationship with. It keeps you from being the girl that hooks up with everyone as well. But, going through college as a couple can get hard at times. There are going to be no shortage of temptations and a lot of life changes that could impact the relationship. Just make sure that you make your decisions with your head and your heart, not just with your heart.
-Stay away from drama. One of the most important things to remember is that it is not worth it to fight or get into it with other girls. Even more so when you consider than guys do not find it that awesome, contrary to popular belief. You need to take the high road and either work things out or just walk away from it. If you want to be at parties ever again, you don’t want to be the girl constantly causing drama.
-The right outfit is also a good idea. The easiest way to check which kinds of outfits are working at your college is to see what the seniors and juniors in that college wear to the same parties that you are planning on going to. Keep in mind though the outfit may be drastically different depending on the type of party you are going to.
-Don’t trust a guy that you just met. That is a mistake that could haunt you for the rest of your life. The fact of the matter is that quite a few college guys just want to have sex with you and then add you to their total number of women they have slept with. That is their only goal. These guys usually don’t have the patience to try and wait a while before sleeping with you. So, a good way to weed out the bad ones is to make them wait. If it is a guy that is willing to wait, chances are he is not just interested physically. Don’t rush anything and make sure you are ready.
-Keeping a good reputation is a sure fire way to meet a nice guy. The girls that sleep around are going to get a lot of attention for a while, and then the guys are going to move on from those girls when they realize they need something more. Plus by keeping a good reputation and waiting for a nice guy you will really set the bar high and meet those nice guys. If you simply are charmed by a guy that your not sure if you can not sleep with, grab one of your friends and leave the party. Believe me if he is a good guy he should have no problem waiting to romance you.